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To be or not to be....married

Discussion in 'General Discussions and Lounge' started by kappa84, Mar 30, 2008.

  1. kappa84

    kappa84 Senior Member Webmaster

    So, I'm in doubt. I have a girlfriend for about 3 years, we love each other :wub: and we're planning on moving together.
    The problem is: she wants us to get married.:shifty:
    I consider it's a real important decision and I think it must past more than 3 years to be ready for " the big move".

    What do you think about this? I'm sure lots of you came through this problem, maybe I could find some good advices.

    I'm a little afraid that she could loose her optimism and she could try to find a person that is more "searching for a marriage". Women are so hard to undestand...:nono:

    Am I paranoid? :helpsmilie:
  2. Bagi Zoltán

    Bagi Zoltán Boss Cart consultant Webmaster

    I have the very same problem. And like you not really sure what would be the good decision. If you can imagine your life without her I suppose you shouldn't get married, but if you can't do not hesitate too long:)
  3. temi

    temi Facilitator Webmaster

    Guys, this is a very difficult decision, I think you are the only one who can answer this question. Women tend to like the security of knowing you are their husband and not just boy friend.
    I don't know the answer to this, I am married for the second time :( I guess my second marriage was mainly because my wife wanted us to get married, to me, marriage and a committed exclusive relationships are the same.

    In UK, a statistic was released about marriage a few days ago, almost 50% of marriage now end in divorce :(
  4. kappa84

    kappa84 Senior Member Webmaster

    It's like a trend... :(

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